With the weddings and portraits and personal stuff last year, I probably took over 10,000 images last year. Yet this is one of the most memorable.

This was taken on Christmas Day 2010.
Shaun McGaughey was my brother in law and died a little over five weeks ago. He died in my parents driveway, while helping them shovel snow. He was 43 years old.
He was a wonderful human being and many things have been said about his goodness and child-like enthusiasm. His death left many with a deep and profound void and the grief is still raw.
This post, however, is a departure from that. It is about how you never know when an image that you take will have great impact.
The image was a quick grab while we were opening presents, yet in many ways it captures the sparkle that made Shaun special to his legions of friends and family.
We take many similar pictures in our lives as photographers, during weddings or portrait sessions. Often, after they have been delivered to our clients we do not give them much additional thought. Some are fortunate to make it into our advertising, but many become just a memory.
We never know if an image is one that a grieving wife or father looks to when they know there is no time to be had with the person they miss so deeply. We never know if it is the one you grab when you can grab only one thing when leaving a home in crisis.
We do know that when we engage our subjects as people and get to know them on some deeper level that they are willing to show who they are to us and to our mind’s eye. It is only for us to trip the shutter and to commit the image to the future.
We never know.